Sunday, January 31, 2010

O.K. Toy clutter ...

The consensus on my posts regarding my House of Chaos is that I have too much toy clutter in my house. Thank you for this feedback!

I agree and I am setting a goal to eliminate toys once again this week. I am a sucker for toys, but this clutter has reached a painful level recently.

I will let you know how it goes!

Thursday, January 28, 2010

House of Chaos Part II

So, here was the plan of action. The house was a mess and I organized the kids. I told them that we would set the timer for five minutes and work as fast as we could all together to put things away in the room. When the timer went off, we stopped and went on to the next room. Pick-up time lasted a total of 15 minutes, 5 minutes per room. Look at what we accomplished in 15 minutes!


*It's fun to tumble in the room when the toys are out of the way!


But, as you can see, three days later, my angels are happy in their chaos once again!



Oh well! At least we know that 15 minutes can make a huge difference

if someone important is if stopping by!

Monday, January 25, 2010

House of Chaos

My house is in a state of chaos.


First, my 3 and 4-year-old have done this:






And this:





And this:





The visiting dog who has been here for
nearly one month now has done this:






And this:





And let's just say that I am tired.


I have had it.


All of this clutter and work just clogs my brain.


Soooooo, at 4:30 p.m. today, I will organize my kids to assist in putting order to this chaos.


I will corral them and direct them and I will surrender to the idea that I cannot do this alone.


And they will learn.


Right?


I will let you know how it goes.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Random Thoughts ....

Health and Fitness ...

I am feeling really good about my new eating and exercise plan. I want to be healthier and I want this change to be permanent. I am really happy right now that I am not having any cravings, thanks to the Abs Diet http://www.amazon.com/Abs-Diet-Women-Six-Week-Flatten/dp/1594866244! This is a great eating plan btw. It highlights 12 power food groups that are healthy, fairly yummy and highly filling. I am especially excited that this plan endorses eggs and it explains why eating them is a good thing! I looove eggs!

Bickering ...

Why do my girls have to bicker, bicker, bicker?? Whine. And bicker some more?? I know they are 3 and 4 and have a lot to learn about getting along with others, including each other. But, it is SO tiring to listen to it. It feels like it goes on All. Day. Long. On some days anyway.

Rigidity ...

What is the deal with rigidity? Why not be flexible? It's more fun.

Goals ...

I continue to work on my New Year's Resolutions http://divasuzanne.blogspot.com/2010/01/new-year-new-goals.html. I like having goals and my goals this year are very doable ... and energizing. I am not convinced I need to work quite so hard as I have been though on my housework. My kids are young and I don't need a crisp, clean, perfect home. I want them to enjoy and explore ... I want to teach them good habits, but I also want this to be a lived in and child-friendly home. I am going to ease up a bit on some of the toy pick up. It is not worth the effort. My focus will be on the bigger things ... dishes, laundry, bathrooms, floors, tolerance ...

Cooking ...

I want to be a better cook. Tonight I made a good dinner, using some carefully selected recipes. I am going to begin to make marks in my cookbooks when my family likes the meal I cook. I tend to cook from recipes and then rarely go back to them. I think it would be easier to have some regular dishes that I know my family loves to eat, aside from spaghetti and chicken & rice.

Turning 40 ...

I will be 40 in a few weeks. I always have a hard time on my birthdays. This year, I want to end that trend of mine and just enjoy who I am. Who cares how old I am, right? Age happens to us all and the alternative is much worse. Still, this is going to be hard for me. I tend to get blue on my birthday.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

New Year, New Goals ...

This year I am inspired by Flylady's new motto for 2010 --

"The timer is my friend in 2010."

This year, I will be doing many exciting things with my timer to meet my goals. I will use Flylady as a lead resource, but I will have my own goal areas to make headway on.

If I had to sum up my New Year's Resolution this year in one word, it would be:

Fifteen

And that is because, as Flylady says, "you can do anything for 15 minutes!" And this is so true for me. There is nothing like spicing up the drudgery of housework with timer goals at various times throughout the day.

So, I will be using my timer to meet my housework goals, kick procrastination in the rear, and even to do some exercise. This year will be all about bursts of 15 minute energy. I am not even thinking of perfection in any area, just wonderful bursts of positive energy doing various tasks that are on path to my goals. And, in doing this, I will keep things all mixed up and, therefore to me -- Un-boring!

So, the best way for me to utilize this method was to make a list of things I want to accomplish this year. This will enable me to work a little bit on one thing and then zoom, boom, bang -- shift to something else to keep things fun, mixed up and productive.

So, here is my list:

1.) Master my Laundry -- as the Flylady recently said, "A load per day keeps CHAOS away." She is right. I will do ONE load per day and I will not strive for more than that unless I am just in the mood. In the past, I have ALWAYS tried to do more than a load per day and I burn out. (Boredom factor).

2.) Add daily laundry and trash pickups covering the entire house to my daily routine.

3.) Declutter regularly using Flylady Hot Spot emails as a reminder.

4.) Add a Swish and Swipe routine for the bathrooms.

5.) Buy meat on sale but that is already packaged for the freezer. Basically, this means I will spend just a bit more on meat by not buying it in bulk and then packaging it for freezing myself, but I will save a lot on my sanity. By doing this, I feel that I will be able to devote more of myself to actual food preparation (ideally creating better meals that my family will enjoy much more.)

6.) Add some exercise to my daily routine -- 15 minute increments.

7.) Eat breakfast more often.

8.) Keep Ellie home from preschool if I don't like the weather.

9.) Explore options for activities for the girls that benefit all THREE of us!

10.) Save enough money to cash flow a new roof this year.

11.) Continue with our budget and minimizing expenses.

12.) Recreate my bedroom to a room I like a lot more.

13.) Have people over to visit approximately every other month (during the last two weeks of the month.)

14.) Embrace that I like to change things around in my life frequently and do it as much as I want to! This is my gift to myself as I turn 40 this year!